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kjwillow Offline
#1 Posted : Sunday, 19 April 2009 2:32:58 PM(UTC)

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Hi,
Well I am now at 28 weeks and went to a multiple birth class and got more information about breastfeeding twins, and just wondering if those Mums who have already met their twins, how their experience has been with trying to breastfeed, did anyone get lactation consultants involved. Sorry for the multitude of questions, I have a 3 yr old and we had so much trouble with breastfeeding, that I am wondering how I am going to go with the arrival of my two little boys - in July! Thanks,
KellyR Offline
#2 Posted : Sunday, 19 April 2009 3:17:18 PM(UTC)


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Hi and welcome.... :D There is a BF section if you are interested in having a look in there and you would probably get more responses to your Q....also l am pretty sure there is a thread on multiples...... :D If you can't find them, just post again in here and l will put up a link to them....(that's if you want) :lol:

Kel x
Kel x0x0x :-)



Puzzlebug Offline
#3 Posted : Sunday, 19 April 2009 3:46:17 PM(UTC)

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Hi kjwillow :D Congratulations on the twin pregnancy :D It's an amazing experience!! Come and join us twin mums to be and twin mums in the Twins Chat thread is you want - here's the link: viewtopic.php?f=81&t=23736

My twin girls are now 19 months old and I did try to BF once they came home. They were prem though and in hospital for 7 weeks during which time I expressed and bottle/tube fed them but once home I gave BF a go and found it didn't work for me unfortunately. Isabelle attached really well and fed well but Skylah was smaller and had trouble attaching at times so I was BF-ing Izzie and expressing and bottle feeding Skylah. I kept that up till they were 3 months old and then switched to formula.

I didn't have a lactation consultant as such but I did have midwives/maternal nurses come to my home to help me out but I just couldn't get the hang of it. I'm part of the MBA too and when I met some of the mums there I found that many of them BF'd successfully with twins though, so don't let my experience put you off.

All I can say is give it a go and if it doesn't work out, then try not to feel too bad about it.
Just Remember, When you have a bad day....its not forever. A new day is just around the corner.
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PHOENIX Offline
#4 Posted : Monday, 20 April 2009 1:10:51 AM(UTC)


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You don't happen to be in VIC do you? ABA vic branch is running a special BF education (BEC) class for twins and other multiples.
But if you're not in Vic other ABA groups run these same classes (just not necessarily aimed at multiples) that will let you know what to expect and how to cope etc.
Well worth looking into it-ABA website 'Breastfeeding Education Classes' (under products and service section).
ABA also has a booklet on BF multiples that is full of ideas.
I know a few mums with twins who have BF (some with 1 or more older children) and what they mostly say is that the planning before they have bub helps the best (pre prepared meals, extra help, cleaners etc-things not specifically related to the feeding but to life in general)

Hope this helps
Rylee-6yrs (weaned @ 3yrs+3mths)
David-9yrs (BF 23mths)
k8 Offline
#5 Posted : Monday, 20 April 2009 5:41:55 AM(UTC)

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I did breastfeed my twins, sort of.
I breastfed DS exclusively, but expressed full time for DD's feeds until she was 6mths old. She was smaller, had bad reflux & had trouble latching on & getting a full feed from me. So in the end I decided it would be easier to just express & give her EBM in her bottles. Some morning feeds I twin fed them though, as I had faster flow in that first morning feed & she seemed to cope better then, plus I had DS on the other breast doing all the work getting the let down started she really just sat on there for the ride :roll:
I did see a LC a few times, but I think it came down to giving DD more time at the breast, which I found difficult, especially as she seemed to need a top up after every feed, I felt like I was sitting down all day doing nothing but having a baby on my breast or getting top up bottles ready & washed & expressing etc. I know now that isn't exactly not normal to sit & feed for that long, but at the time I struggled, and it was 7 or 8 weeks before she really started to latch on properly to the breast & even then it was hit & miss which I found frustrating.

I did find it difficult, but it got easier. They were also my first babies, which I think makes it harder as the whole breastfeeding thing is new to me as well as them. At least you know more about breastfeeding & how challenging it can be. But know that generally it does get easier as the babies get older.

I think DS & DD showed me that it really is baby specific as to how difficult or easy breastfeeding can be. DS was an absolute breeze to feed, didn't have to think about it, shove him on & he drank & hopped off. DD would squirm, scream, not latch on properly, spend 40mins on & still come off screaming. It was difficult for me to know if she was hungry or in pain from reflux, which was part of the reason we bottle fed EBM as I knew after a feed she was in pain if screaming & generally not because she was hungry if that makes sense.

But finding out as much info now & support is great. If you check out the AMBA website there is a section in the forum of mums happy to have other multiple expecting mums come & visit, you could ask if anyone near you is breastfeeding & if you can come visit. Not only will it be great for support when your bubs come but may also give you some ideas on how to help it work for you, if that makes sense :lol:
Kate

2006 - Twins DS & DD
2007 - DS#2
2009 - DS#3
kjwillow Offline
#6 Posted : Monday, 20 April 2009 12:32:28 PM(UTC)

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Hi, thanks for the information and advice. I think it also depends on the bubs as well, as my DD was not good at sucking from a bottle or a breast. Thanks again for the responses. Will head to those websites as well.
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#7 Posted : Monday, 11 May 2009 4:34:19 PM(UTC)

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Hi there,
I successfully breastfed my twins for 11.5 months.

I tandem fed and when one woke for a feed, i fed the other aswell.

If you want, PM me and i can tell you how I coped with feeding throughout the night and day and the tips and tricks I used to help facilitate breastfeeding when my husband (and great helper) went back to work.


Little sister to 5 big brothers (15, 11, 5, 3, 3) and 1 big sister (18 months)

7 Little Australian's
katiesugar Offline
#8 Posted : Wednesday, 3 June 2009 5:33:31 AM(UTC)

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HI,

My identical boys are now 16months and I breast fed exclusively for 16 weeks, then began top ups of expressed milk, then formula.

I started by feeding one at a time in the football hold untill I had the hang of things then fed them at the same time on a feeding cushion(a fabulous invention-If you dont have one you are more than welcome to borrow mine-Im in Wagga, not sure where you are, but feel free to let me know if you would like it.)

I slept them in one cot so it was easy to pick them both up at once, I always fed both when one woke....just kept them on the same schedule...I did try just feeding whichever one woke, but we got so out of whack that I think I was lucky to get an hours sleep in.

Here are my tips:
* Relax- your bubs will sense when you are stressed or anxious and it will be more difficult for them to relax to attach and feed well.
* Be aware that it will hurt for a while. It was often that toe curling pain when they would attach for the first few weeks, but be strong as it will get better. Invest in Lansinoh....the best nipple cream there is. And start applying it now and preparing your nipples for what is to come.
*Be prepared. Have everything you will need close at hand. I set everything up on the main couch. I would put the four nappies, wipes, powder, the phone, remote controls, snacks and a bottle of water on the couch next to me. I would lean the cushion up against the coffee table. Pick up both bubs, sit down and have them rest in an upright position on my shoulders, one arm would cover both of their backs to keep them there and the other arm reached out and bought the cushion up on my knees. I changed them in the middle of a feed and would wrap them on the cushion as well, then hold the bubs and just stand up...the cushion would fall to the ground and you are free to walk back to their room with them.
* The cushion is great cause it provides enough room for you to change, feed, wrap, give them tummy time all at the same time and just stare and stare and stare at them.
* Whilst your in hospital learn how to feed them in different positions...the one thing I didnt do was learn how to hold them properly in the madonna style.

Good luck, I hope everything works out well for you. Feel free to ask me any more questions.

katie
Mandii Offline
#9 Posted : Wednesday, 10 June 2009 6:15:17 AM(UTC)


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Hi

I hav identical twin daughters who are now 2 yrs old. I went in with an open mind, happy to try everything. I struggled with BF from the very beginning with the bigger twin being so hungry and having huge problems latching on and the smaller twin being so tiny and little and not having the energy to latch on and constantly falling asleep. I went through a lot of stress and then switched them to the bottle after a couple of weeks. For me, it was the best decision i made. My girls thrived and i was a lot less stressed.

I would go in and give it a go and see wot happens. If you hav great support and even access to someone like a lactation consultant, thats your best bet with getting the BF sorted.

If it doesnt work, then at least you did the best that you can.

As you can see from above, heaps of twin mums hav BF successfully and thats fantastic as i admire you if it happens for you. x
Mandii & DH - 29
Twins - Maya & Willa - 2/5/07
Life's not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breaths away......
kccjmylife Offline
#10 Posted : Thursday, 7 January 2010 7:02:39 AM(UTC)

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I didn't even attempt to BF my first DD, then thought I would at least attempt it with the twins.

I think the most important advice I can give is TRY but don't let it get you down if you can't, if they can't or if you just find it all too much and give up.

I had one twin absolutely refuse to co-operate so she went straight on the bottle after about 5days. The other twin seemed to be a natural, but once we got home and all those "wonderful do gooders" were no where to be seen (by this I mean all the people who OFFERED to help me once at home) his constant demand for the boob just became all too much for me and we gave up at 9wks.

However I managed to BF my last bub for 13mths with no dramas.

I am PRO whatever makes mum sane and bub happy & healthy!!
Me (31), DH (33), Kayla (12), Caden (4) and Charlee (4) and Jhett (2)


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