HI,
My identical boys are now 16months and I breast fed exclusively for 16 weeks, then began top ups of expressed milk, then formula.
I started by feeding one at a time in the football hold untill I had the hang of things then fed them at the same time on a feeding cushion(a fabulous invention-If you dont have one you are more than welcome to borrow mine-Im in Wagga, not sure where you are, but feel free to let me know if you would like it.)
I slept them in one cot so it was easy to pick them both up at once, I always fed both when one woke....just kept them on the same schedule...I did try just feeding whichever one woke, but we got so out of whack that I think I was lucky to get an hours sleep in.
Here are my tips:
* Relax- your bubs will sense when you are stressed or anxious and it will be more difficult for them to relax to attach and feed well.
* Be aware that it will hurt for a while. It was often that toe curling pain when they would attach for the first few weeks, but be strong as it will get better. Invest in Lansinoh....the best nipple cream there is. And start applying it now and preparing your nipples for what is to come.
*Be prepared. Have everything you will need close at hand. I set everything up on the main couch. I would put the four nappies, wipes, powder, the phone, remote controls, snacks and a bottle of water on the couch next to me. I would lean the cushion up against the coffee table. Pick up both bubs, sit down and have them rest in an upright position on my shoulders, one arm would cover both of their backs to keep them there and the other arm reached out and bought the cushion up on my knees. I changed them in the middle of a feed and would wrap them on the cushion as well, then hold the bubs and just stand up...the cushion would fall to the ground and you are free to walk back to their room with them.
* The cushion is great cause it provides enough room for you to change, feed, wrap, give them tummy time all at the same time and just stare and stare and stare at them.
* Whilst your in hospital learn how to feed them in different positions...the one thing I didnt do was learn how to hold them properly in the madonna style.
Good luck, I hope everything works out well for you. Feel free to ask me any more questions.
katie