Fantasia, (can't help you on the topic as I have only ever been 0.5 BMI points over the healthy weight range for my last pregnancy & never had a membrane rupture without help and not at all for one pregnancy)
Being overweight or obese does put you at a higher risk for a lot of things, it certainly doesn't mean that its a given that you will have those complications. And being overweight is not the only risk factor for complications of any sort.
Plenty of oveweight women have no problems whatsoever during their pregnancies and labour. Your best best is to eat healthily, minimise weight gain, some exercise, plenty of rest, follow your OB's/health professional's advice and try to stop yourself from worrying about anything and everything and stay positive.If you do have complications in your pregnancy you and your baby will be better equipped to handle them.
Hope I don't offend, just you seem to stress an awful lot, sit back and enjoy your pregnancy, because it will be over before you know it. If you ever want to chat, you are on my facebook
